Wow, I thought I replied to this...guess not. What I was going to say was:
I've never been more impressed with the OME kit I recently got from Kurt (I used the 882s as well). The install is easier then any Jeep lift I've done (including Wranglers, Cherokees, Grand Cherokees, CJs, etc). The hardest part is getting the struts assembled. I went through the same thing you're finding, no one would touch them because they weren't their parts
So I went and bought a 20 ton press and made my own setup
. I had a 3" Toytec space on my truck before this lift and with the OME lift, I sit identical to what I had before, however I expect that to settle a little. My truck rides tons nicer, it's a solid ride. I'd recommend in to anyone even thinking about it. Also, if you want to come out to Riverton, I'll help you assemble your stuts.