And so it begins.....

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I pretty much shared the exact same views as Cody in my 20s, and to some extent still do. I also wouldn't call it animosity either, just clarity. I also have a pretty healthy relationship, but jenn is also just as warped as I-_-

speak for youself, freako.....
 
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unltd1

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..............i don't know what you're talking about................
 
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unltd1

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............there's absolutely nothing abnormal about me.......................
 

Kiel

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...............right Kiel?

Damn straight! If I can tolerate you guys, everything is great! Oh and by the way I want to meet this infamous girl that Meat loves!:rofl: Does she know you love her, or are you still restricted to 100 yards?;)
 

Cody

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And while I actually agree with many of the comments Cody has made, I feel his animosity towards women will have a significant negative impact on his chances of finding a solid healthy relationship.

lol, ya think! bingo

I like to think of it as playful animosity, but it has impacted my attitude towards meeting anyone new to the point that I'm almost completely indifferent. I'd rather not try and not be disappointed again, than to try.

I spent a lot of my years out in the constant pursuit of girls. It was always a game to find the place with the most chicks, and I honestly feel like when I was completely concentrating on that, I missed out on lots of other good times. Once in a blue moon will I approach a girl anywhere, and in the rare instance one approaches me, I'm usually more put off and irritated than anything.
 

Cody

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I just require my own accptance. the only person that I know I must please for the rest of my life is myself.
 

pELYgroso

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Put me in the happily married subset. While there are up days and down days, overall its been very rewarding, not only emotionally which of course matters most, but financially as well. If it were not for my wife and here contributions to the household we couldn't have the standard of living we currently do. We don't do everything together, but we find things we do like to do together and make them count, then we are not offended when the other likes to do something different. Candace doesn't like to go camping/exploring as much as I do, so she goes out with her girlfriends, I don't like Lipstick Jungle so I work out in the garage, no hard feelings. We do have hobbies we share, we both like dirt bikes, can I tell you how nice it is to wake up on a weekend morning and hear "lets go to the desert today". When the right person walks into your life, you'll know it.

ditto to that!
My wife prolly suggests going wheeling or riding as much or more than I do....now when it comes to working on the rigs, she's not as gung-ho about it but she definitely encourages me to fix stuff so we can head out and play! I probably get just as much enjoyment out of watching her get better at riding her little XR 200 as I do riding my 250f!
I think that if you feel that you are sacrificing things you love to be in a relationship, you'll come to resent that and not be happy. BUT, in every relationship, there will be compromises made. If not, it will not work. period. Whether she's a def insecure mute or a cocky supermodel. Life is a compromise, married or not.
Like cruiza said, when the right person walks into your life, you'll know. She'll be the one that you could see yourself compromising on a few things with here and there to be with because she adds to your current completeness.
 

Cody

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i thought it was already dead? hadn't been touched in 12 hours



leave it be if you don't want it up.....


that's what she said!
 
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