She's a *itch, thats all... Anyone that goes after a dead family for everything that they have, is scum in my opinion.
My grandparents died a while back. Actually my uncle and grandfather died about 5 minutes apart, then my grandmother about a year later. Kind of a tragic story, they found my uncle dead by his car (he had a very bad cold). They figure he was on his way to the hospital to see his dad, probably for the last time, and didn't make it. ANYWAY! They had barely died when the family started swarming in and trying to take things. It was about 5 years before any of them had head stones on their graves... But their house and belongings were ran sacked/sold within 90 days of their death, way before my grandmother passed - which she was immediately put into a home to die, and nobody ever visited her again. I lived out of state, and made 3 trips from CA to UT just to see her. She had alzhimers bad and thought I was my father (her son). So much so, all that I wanted was my father's Navy uniform and associated medals and such - they had already taken it and sold it at a yard sale for less than $100. The last time I saw him, I was in diapers. We moved away, mother remarried, etc. After I knew about him, he had already passed away from an accidental overdose of cough sryup and cold medicine. Apparently these very bad colds were common in the family. The whole thing is very long winded and VERY complicated. I'll spare you guys as it would be off topic...
This left such a bad taste in my mouth, I actually changed my last name (legally) and took my step fathers name. I have not been in contact with ANYONE on that side of the family for about 15 years. When I was doing Dell service, I even worked on family's computers and said nothing more than 'your computer is fixed' to them. If they knew who I was, they never said anything either.
She married the old fart for one reason, and that was to watch him die and take everything he and his family worked hard for.