Moving the center pin back will most likely hurt flex, and increase axle wrap. Yes, drilling spring steel sucks, I've done it. The best advise is to mount it in a drill press or mill, and use a very slow rpm with lots of lubricant. Also, have a few spare drill bits.
The biggest problem with redrilling a leaf spring is the original center pin hole, it creates a weak point. The leaf spring will begin to flex more through the old center pin hole and will eventually break right through the hole. However, if you only move the hole about 1", the old hole will still be located in the u-bolt clamped area, it shouldn't flex and would probably be okay. If you move 3" I garantee that it will break at the old center hole.