What transmission are you running?
I've run 4:56's with 33's in an XJ with an auto trans and when on the freeway, the trans was continually shifting between 3rd and OD. I've run 4:88's with 33's for the past 6 years and the ratio is perfect for road and trail.
If you have a 5 speed manual trans, 4:56's will be fine with 33s and even 35's, but if you are running a 4.0L/AW4 auto combo, you'll regret spending your money on a re-gear to 4:56's, only to find that your rig is under-powered, plus your fuel economy will blow because the motor will have to work harder to move your rig down the road because it won't be operating in it's optimum power range.
My XJ build thread might help with your new XJ project:
http://naxja.org/forum/showthread.php?t=913774&page=2