Just to document our progress:
We test drove a Toyota Corolla today. First thing we noticed was the tan interior. Ugly! You can get it in charcoal but they didn't have one in stock. Seems to drive fine, but had a lot of engine noise at higher RPMs. They only had two on the lot. Selling them faster than they can get them in stock.
The Honda dealership was the same way. They didn't have a single Civic Sedan on the lot. Unfortunately we couldn't drive one. He didn't even have a brochure left to give us. He did give us the option of ordering one today.
Just to give it a shot we drove a Mazda 3. It gets slightly less gas milage (which may be a deal killer), but we were more impressed with the car than the Corolla. It was much quieter. It was a little lower and seemed to have slightly less trunk space (important for Chicky's work), but seemed a little more "solid" a car than the Corolla and had more options for the money. Much nicer looking interior as well.
The next step is to price out each car with all our options, and research what mileage owners are actually getting.