No problem, there's a lot to keep up with.
I was building a 4runner. I've only had it 2 months, but I've realized that it's not the right vehicle for me. We went on a trip with 4 people and a dog and frieed. We went down to Goblin Valley and headed over to Capitol Reef via backroads. It was a super fun trip, but fitting 4 people's gear in a 4runner was tough. I had to stack it all up, and practically unload the entire vehicle at nights. A sliding drawer system would really help out, but I realized I missed my truck bed and tailgate more than anything. I also feel that the runners are a bit more fragile than the tacomas. The trucks seem beefier built, even though they use the same motor, trans, etc. The suspension is a lot beefier on the trucks. Also, a LOT of stuff hangs down below the frame rails on a 4runner. You've got the exhaust, gas tank, and lower links all hanging down. The pickups have it tucked up a bit more. So rather than pour money into a vehicle that I wasn't 100% satisfied with, I decided to get my favorite rig and build that.
Regarding winching, we had a nice river crossing on that trip. The river was about 30 feet across and we measured it with a stick and it was only about 8" deep. No big deal, I thought, I've been through stuff 3x this deep. Frieed has a winch and a pull-pal, otherwise we probably wouldn't have tried the river crossing (actually, I would have tried it, Frieed would have had more sense and turned around). You can see where this story is headed...
Fried dropped in and even with both his axles engaged he wasn't able to get across. He went about 5 feet, then he sunk to his axles. Fortunately the water was about 2" below the door and the interior stayed dry. We got in the water, drug his winch line out about 60 feet, and used the pullpal to winch him out. There's no way he could have got outta there without a winch.
Then it was my turn and I didn't even make it all the way into the bank before I got stuck. My rear hitch got hung up on the bank entering, and I had to get winched across as well. It was a really unique river crossing. It was like pea gravel 10 feet deep. The water was flowing through the gravel, even 5 feet below the surface. once our wheels started turning, it just dug big holes with the tires and we didn't make it across.
I still have my hand winch, but I wonder if it would have gotten me out of that situation. I'd rather not find out. I'll still be keeping the hand winch for nasty recoveries and general lifting around the house, but I decided then and there that I needed a front winch. I can't afford the winch or the bumper this year, but I hope to be able to in the next year.