I never have quite figured out why the sexual urges of men & women differ so
much. And I never have figured out the whole Mars & Venus thing. And, I
never have figured out why men think with their heads and women with their
hearts. And I never yet have figured out how the sexual desire gene gets
thrown into a state of turmoil when it hears the words "I do."
One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the
passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I
just want you to hold me." I said, "WHAT??" So she says the words that I and
every husband on the planet dreads. She explains that I must not be in tune
with her emotional needs as a Woman.
I'm thinking, "What was her first clue?" I finally realize that nothing is
going to happen that night, so I went to bed.
The very next day we went shopping at a big unnamed department store...I
walked around while she tried on three very expensive outfits. She couldn't
decide which one to take, so I told her to take all three of them. She then
tells me that she wants matching shoes worth $200 each to which I say OK.
And then we go to the Jewelry Dept. where she gets a set of diamond
earrings. Let me tell you ...she was so excited. She must have thought that
I was one wave short of a shipwreck, but I don't think she cared. I think
she was testing me when she asked for a tennis bracelet because she doesn't
even play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I told her that it was
OK to buy it. She was almost sexually excited from all of this and you
should have seen her face when she said, "I'm ready to go, let's go to the
cash register."
I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No, honey. I don't feel
like buying all this stuff now." You should have seen her face...it went
completely blank. I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this
stuff for a while." And just when she had this look like she was going to
kill me, I added, "You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a
Man."
I figure that I should be having sex again sometime during the spring thaw.
much. And I never have figured out the whole Mars & Venus thing. And, I
never have figured out why men think with their heads and women with their
hearts. And I never yet have figured out how the sexual desire gene gets
thrown into a state of turmoil when it hears the words "I do."
One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the
passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I
just want you to hold me." I said, "WHAT??" So she says the words that I and
every husband on the planet dreads. She explains that I must not be in tune
with her emotional needs as a Woman.
I'm thinking, "What was her first clue?" I finally realize that nothing is
going to happen that night, so I went to bed.
The very next day we went shopping at a big unnamed department store...I
walked around while she tried on three very expensive outfits. She couldn't
decide which one to take, so I told her to take all three of them. She then
tells me that she wants matching shoes worth $200 each to which I say OK.
And then we go to the Jewelry Dept. where she gets a set of diamond
earrings. Let me tell you ...she was so excited. She must have thought that
I was one wave short of a shipwreck, but I don't think she cared. I think
she was testing me when she asked for a tennis bracelet because she doesn't
even play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I told her that it was
OK to buy it. She was almost sexually excited from all of this and you
should have seen her face when she said, "I'm ready to go, let's go to the
cash register."
I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No, honey. I don't feel
like buying all this stuff now." You should have seen her face...it went
completely blank. I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this
stuff for a while." And just when she had this look like she was going to
kill me, I added, "You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a
Man."
I figure that I should be having sex again sometime during the spring thaw.
