Are your metal cloak's worn? if so I would love to see them, it would help when we look at the longevity of the different bushings.
Well according to Blaine Johnson, the guy who designed the Savvy Mid Arm, he says that short arms are fine up to 4", the angle does not affect the ride as much as people say, and you want good shocks. Most people who go long arm also upgrade their shocsk and that is what improves the ride, not the control arms, and you have more of a chance to screw up the ride with a crappy setup long arm. If you NEED longer arms, look at the savvy mid arm kit. I prefer the Girro joints/DDB's over the Johnny Joints but that is personal preference because the JJ's have an excellent reputation.
I just went down to Core 4x4, they are building me a set of TJ short arms that will take the Clayton Girro/Synergy DDB bushings. I am also getting a set of 12" stroke fox 2.0 reservoirs and outboading the rears. The shocks and outboarding will do more than a long arm reduced angle for on and off highway ride. You only change 15 degrees of arm angle with a 3.5-4" lift with short arms. You will also extend the control arms to get your wheel base back to the proper wheelbase if you do it right.
Go over to the Wrangler TJ forum and the Jeep forums and read, some are experts on these modifications if you are running a TJ. Tim