Thanks again for all. It really means alot. Even from those I have yet to meet!!
Tonights update. Because she has the breathing tube, she has been sedated. They pulled the sedation for a bit, but the tube makes things very uncomfortable and she asked to sedated again. Not coherently, but she got the point across. BUT, her heart rate is closer to normal (102-105) compared to the 138 she was hitting yesterday morning. Blood pressure is up, even after taking the meds away to help raise it. She's under her own steam for that. We had concerns about possible kidney issues, but everything seems to be working OK (passing fluids is always good!!). My daughter drove up for the afternoon and will be home for the weekend. My son is skipping tomorrows classes (with permission) and is home for the weekend too. I think we have everything covered for the moment.
Thanks again, things are getting better, but not completely clear yet. A lot can still go wrong. We're hoping the tube comes out tomorrow, that will be a good milestone.