Lots of amazing and insightful advice here that many people (myself included) need to heed. From one addict to another, this advice will help you.
This advice is helpful for general population reading this, not just you.
I think you like the
idea of being prepared and ready to go at any minute, but have you ever decided to up and leave and go camping within 10 min of the idea popping into your head?
Do you want an expo-looking rig, or do you want to go camping/exploring? If you liked camping/exploring that much, then you'd go all the time, regardless of the vehicle. You wouldn't let your vehicle prevent you from exploring.
I like airmanwilliams, he is a super nice guy who would give anyone the shirt off his back. What I also like about him is that he admits that his mods are for looks, not for wheeling. Now, i'm not saying you're like him, i've seen you wheel some really tough trails before. You've got skill and you've been out a lot. But consider the idea that the main reason (whether they know it or not) people spend thousands on their vehicle is for
looks. Airman does it, but he admits that it's all for looks, and that's perfectly fine.
I caught myself watching others' build threads and i find myself thinking "i want a rig
exactly like that." In the past, I'd get so fixated on a certain build that I'd decide I needed it, and I'd sell my current rig at that time to entertain that fixation. After doing this for 5-10 times, I started to ask myself why I wasn't happy with these incredible vehicles that everyone else was so happy with. I started to realize that I liked the way the truck looked, or the features/specs it had, and I then tried to talk myself into believing that I had a legitimate
need for the same vehicle. In reality, I fabricated a reason to get it, and I really just fell in love with the looks and the idea of the vehicle. I had it all backwards. I was inventing needs for rigs, instead of inventing rigs for my needs, my TRUE needs. At this point in my life, I could totally get by with an old beater trooper, cr-v, rav4, 4runner, tracker, you name it. They'd all get me where I want to go.
Lay out your priorities and build a vehicle to those. Here are my needs/priorities (in order of importance)
- I constantly need projects going on in my life. I go crazy without them. This vehicle could become my project, or I could have a different type of project that is non-vehicle related
- I need to be out in nature regularly or I go crazy
- I need to share this experience with my wife and dog
- I need to create memories with them.
I feel that a vehicle with the following requirements would allow me to do that:
- must be reliable
- must have awd and a decent amount of ground clearance (a subaru isn't quite tall enough for my needs)
- must fit my budget
Nice-to haves:
- cool looking
- rugged
- good aftermarket support
- good MPG
- it'd be cool if I could sleep in the back
- power is nice, but not necessary. If it's a small, reliable engine, that'll be fine. A fast V8 would be awesome, but it's not a priority or a need.
When I built my current truck, I built it around the specific trails I wanted to wheel. I wanted to be able to do Hole in the Rock and the Rubicon Trail, and still be very streetworthy and fun on long dirt roads. I made sure that as soon as I built it, I ran those trails. Building it for those trails, but never wheeling them, is counterintuitive. A lot of guys want a rig that's "capable enough to do X trail without breaking" but they never take it even close to that level. In your case, I think that'd be wasted money/effort. Currently, I can't think of a single thing I don't like about my rig. I absolutely love it. It's been my favorite rig I've ever owned and I have owned it far longer than any other rig. I love it because it allows me to do the things I love more: be with my family, be in nature, make memories. I've stopped looking for excuses to sell vehicles, and I've started focusing more on my priorities. WHen I do that, I don't let a small insignificant thing like an oil leak, or a slipping clutch, or something like that make me get rid of a vehicle that really has it where it counts.
If I didn't have my current vehicle, I could see myself being totally happy with a 3rd gen single-cab pickup on 31's with a rear aussie locker, sliders, and 4.7 low gears. For expedition purposes, a bone stock 3rd gen would rock.