I do think that it's a couples decision, however holding out to have a girl very well may just get you another boy.
My wife was not on board with the idea when I first brought it up. She thought there may be more for our family. I was adamant about not having any more (multiple good reasons, but too long to explain via phone keyboard)
Our youngest is 4.5yrs now, and my wife agrees that starting over with a baby would not be ideal... So she is more willing to agree with me now. I have some trips planned for January and March, so it looks like February will be my turn
My wife was not on board with the idea when I first brought it up. She thought there may be more for our family. I was adamant about not having any more (multiple good reasons, but too long to explain via phone keyboard)
Our youngest is 4.5yrs now, and my wife agrees that starting over with a baby would not be ideal... So she is more willing to agree with me now. I have some trips planned for January and March, so it looks like February will be my turn