Right after reading about your problem, my 02 TDI wouldn't start up the next morning. It felt like a jinx of some kind. I was shocked since this car has never left me stranded in 320,000 miles. Every time I would try, it would just fire a couple of times, then crank without firing. I finally tried a little ether and that made no difference! I figured out it had to be air since it wasn't fuel. After a little research, I found the anti-shudder valve was stuck shut. This valve just shuts off the air supply to make the engine stop quickly when you shut it down. Anyway, that valve was stuck shut. As soon as I knocked the valve open, it started right up!