Ok so maybe I'm that dodge guy. I think I paid $7800 for my '99 club cab 5spd w/200k. I have swapped the ford knuckles, and in hindsight probably should have just swapped a ford 60. The ford brakes are a HUGE upgrade imho. Not a chance that I would trade it for my Brother in Law's f250 ibeam club cab, but I really wanted a crew cab, and that was very tempting.
The thing that sold me was the longevity. I'm a pure function guy and that function was A to B with few troubles. There are quirks with lights etc, and the front end sucks, but I have put 50k on it and I have been happy. The thing that convinced me was the service mile intervals:
350k miles 5.9 cummins
250k miles 7.3 powerstroke
200k duramax (similar year)
I can't remember the source, but you can find that info on google, it may vary a bit, but the general idea is there. The other one was the heater grid vs glow plugs.
I think the OP would be happy with a 7.3, but I'm certainly happy with the return on my investment. I have driven a duramax and I'll admit it was quick and fun. Just have to make sure the injector issues are taken care of, or get the right year.