Ya, I guess if you need to categorize people then you could probably call me a secular humanist, but your assumption about how people get to that is pretty narrow, I feel.
I was never "told" to embrace anything--and I thank my parents every day for that. In my eyes, forcing religion upon your kids dilutes everything it is supposed to stand for. Religion is a completely, 100% individual experience and once people start turning it into a community the entire thing gets screwed up. Growing up, one side of my family was strict LDS and the other was Catholic. I was never force fed either, but instead told to explore it and make my own conclusions about it. I respect, support, and defend everyone's right to believe whatever they want--individually--but as soon as the beliefs become community enforced it's no longer religion, it's controlled conformity. Any student of history should know what that leads to.
Even if I believed in every tenant of a specific religion, I would never label myself that. What does it matter if other people see me as LDS, Catholic, or Buddhist? Who cares. Their view has no bearing on your beliefs, your values, your positive (or negative) contribution to society, your relationship with God, or your judgement--should you believe in such a thing. In my eyes, and I'm just one dude, needing that community support and needing to feel confirmed through other people's beliefs.......well to
me that just seems insecure and to lack commitment to the most critical and fundamental element of all religion--faith. I'm not judging, just how I see it.