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Things just haven't been the same since I moved away. Sorry.
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The best part about this forum is the people. I have made some of my best friends in life by connecting with and meeting the people on here. I wish I knew more of the old-timers. RME has a great thing going; something that's tough to come by on ANY forum these days.
I think in the early days, there was a sense of community to the forum because the rock crawling scene was young and there were only so many people out there doing it. Everyone was excited about it and seeing the progression of the different platforms into what they are today..piles of tube with expensive parts attached to them. That killed it for a lot of people, myself included, who don't have the budget to spring for that sort of vehicle and find themselves destroying their rigs trying to keep up. I think the middle tier guys dropped back into trail wheeling (some form of expedition wheeling, cue Kurt "whatever the **** that means") because they probably got into this thing to be able to explore further down the trail and further away from people.
That's my deal, I don't have the money for a rock crawler or the place to put it, but it's still in my blood and I'd LOVE to go thrash again. It's just prohibitively expensive for me. The other thing that killed it for me was the crowds, which are probably less now it seems. I wanted to get down trails that fewer people were on and explore, and as rock crawling became more popular, the crowds were just plain annoying. I grew tired of seeing drunken idiots throwing beer cans around and driving over trees, and instead of always getting fired up and into altercations on the trail, I just don't go out there.
I feel like I get out and do a lot of trails, and I don't post up invites for random people to come along. This is going to make me sound like an elitist prick, but I'm fairly selective about who I go out with because we've all ended up on a trail at some point with some asshat that makes you miserable, and I don't feel like spending my time off baby sitting someone over their head or trying to avoid someone's abrasive attitude (there is only room for one of those on the trail, and that's mine). I feel bad, because it was the inclusion that was the spirit of this forum originally that really got me hooked, and I wouldn't have half of my friends or any of the memories were it not for people like Greg and Shane and Kurt and Shawn and Marc Bryson and Brent Orton and Carl and Von and Bryson etc etc etc that let me tag along and learn from them....yet I don't do the same for others. I'm a dick.
Anyway, RME is awesome, and the friendships I've made as a direct result of this place have led to some of the most amazing experiences and memories...and it still contributes to them, just in a little different way.
Little late to the party, but that's how I roll.
I think one of the most poignant things that has been said is that when RME started and reached what I would consider it's peak maybe five years ago most of us that were on here were younger and 4-wheeling was our main form of socializing, and thus RME was our outlet. For many of us; be it marriage, kids, businesses, work, or generally being ground down by age and responsibility, 4-wheeling is still in our blood but we've found other things that are taking our time.
So, how do we make RME relevant to the evolved community? Increasing FB and IG content is not the answer, if anything it dilutes what has been built and what we are trying to conserve. Unless there is some way to link the comments from a FG or IG post and drop them into a thread here? Though I doubt FB (which owns both) would allow that as it draws people out of their ecosystem.
More events are key, I think. Give people something to get excited and post about. RME can host a few a year. One training day, BBQ, NPLD Cleanup, Winter Wheeling Trip, whatever. And encourage people to plan and invite others through the forum. Dangle a carrot in front of them like, "Plan an event on the forum that has more than five people, write a trip report about it and you get a free RME sticker!" Perhaps also a monthly featured trip report? Promote that through FB ect. and at the top of the forum?
Featured Rigs is a draw and encourages people to post build threads again. That's one thing I hear over and over again about RME, "There is so much tech!" Similar to the featured trip report, promote it. Plus, I don't think there has ever been a Trooper listed as a featured rig...
Finally, Cody and I need to need to get back into the habit of insulting each other more. We've been far to congenial of late. I wonder if the gravitational pull of his massive head has started to wain as the gray hairs have appeared.
A lot of the people that I used to "crawl" with (including close friends) have moved on from it. I feel like it was such a tight group who was willing to go out of their way to help each-other as well as others on the trail. Trail rides were always so positive and fun. Somewhere that changed. I've kept the crawler for a long time, but I admittedly haven't taken it out much. Mostly due to life, kids, work, etc. So the few times that I have gone out over the past 5 years it's been with groups that I'm not too familiar with. The thing that changed to me was the attitudes. I feel like it's turned into a 'hardcore' fashion show and trash talk fest.
I've seen groups just stand around and talk shit about new guys coming up a trail. Of course they might not have had all the right gear and sure, maybe they broke their driveline or u-joint on chewy hill... but we were all that person once. Hell, I remember having some of the best rides of my life end up like that. We had to improvise and find a way to limp the rig back out. THAT was a challenge.
Actually, now that I think about it... maybe a lot of the people haven't been the guy broken on the trail before because they went out and got a $45k rock bouncer on credit. I dunno. My point is: I spend a lot more time out on the trail by myself now days because I'm burned out with the attitudes. That and I suck at making friends.
A lot of the people that I used to "crawl" with (including close friends) have moved on from it. I feel like it was such a tight group who was willing to go out of their way to help each-other as well as others on the trail. Trail rides were always so positive and fun. Somewhere that changed. I've kept the crawler for a long time, but I admittedly haven't taken it out much. Mostly due to life, kids, work, etc. So the few times that I have gone out over the past 5 years it's been with groups that I'm not too familiar with. The thing that changed to me was the attitudes. I feel like it's turned into a 'hardcore' fashion show and trash talk fest.
I've seen groups just stand around and talk shit about new guys coming up a trail. Of course they might not have had all the right gear and sure, maybe they broke their driveline or u-joint on chewy hill... but we were all that person once. Hell, I remember having some of the best rides of my life end up like that. We had to improvise and find a way to limp the rig back out. THAT was a challenge.
Actually, now that I think about it... maybe a lot of the people haven't been the guy broken on the trail before because they went out and got a $45k rock bouncer on credit. I dunno. My point is: I spend a lot more time out on the trail by myself now days because I'm burned out with the attitudes. That and I suck at making friends.
Probably one of my favorite trips was when you, myself, and James came down Pritchett, and you had to winch that huge truck down chewy with myself, and James as anchors. Stuff like that, and just sitting around shooting the breeze on the trails, and at lunch on the trails is what I love most about wheeling. Aside from some 'hardcore' wheeling! No doubt I LOVE the hard stuff, but I hope I dont get that attitude about it. I try to stay humble, and know what has taken to get where I am, but if I ever do, call me on it! I will do my best to correct it.
Gosh I had no idea I was looked at as the kind of guy diluting the forum! I'm not OG RME, I've never rock crawled, , I subscribe to expedition journal, I rock a RTT, and I love my dirtbike more than my truck.
Sorry for ripping up the true RME roots with my posts
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
My kids (8 and 3) would LOVE to get out with other kids their age and my wife would enjoy meeting new people as well. Maybe a kid oriented 4x4 trip would be fun.. I'd be happy to help put something together. You know, a little less time stuck in the 'boring' car and more time out playing. Turn them loose on a huge sand dune for an afternoon or drop anchor at a remote lake and fish for the weekend. A trip where your kid(s) can cry/fuss all night long and nobody will hate you for it haha.
The hard part about the Training Days is the commitment from someone to organize them. Steve did great, but it's a massive undertaking. Someone needs to step-up in order for them to happen again! The idea of keeping it a little more simple is very worth while.
Id like to step up and take a shot at this but..... wouldnt be able to throw money at it (like renting facilities, insurance, ect) . I love showing new people about wheeling.
Basically my plan is to simplify it and bring back the Newbie Runs. Get some new people in on this and show simple things like Gear and tools to have , Recovery, and most of all Trail respect/etiquite . Whatever happens on the trail . We learn on the trail. Maybe have a night we can all sign up for a CPR class , which im already certified.
Let me know your thoughts on this cause I have some wheeling time tomorrow and maybe throw a short notice "Open invite" to go have some fun.
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Short notice Open Invite already posted.
...The Training Days were incredible, but as Steve mentioned they took a LOT of effort with disappointing returns/turnouts at times. I wish we were able to continue them, but I'm not sure it's a renewable resource.
...However, being a planning part of the last training day, It sucks to put in so much effort only to have people not show up/show up late/etc
...Sucks, doesn't it. I've had the same feeling about RME land use projects that we've done the last few years. It's very disappointing to plan a huge event, planning on big numbers and having minimal turnout. I'm not sure what the answer is there, but would love to hear what we can do.